Friday, March 17, 2017

How to Do Self EMDR

FIRST read this. This woman, Louise Hay, has been through horrible horrible abuse/sexual abuse, and got a type of vaginal cancer later in life because of it. She had the idea that if the trauma that created her negative beliefs CAUSED the cancer....then why couldn't changing the beliefs to positive ones CURE it? So she told the Dr (who wanted to start chemo right away) to let her delay chemo for a couple months while she tried an experiment, and if it didn't work, she would do chemo right away. After a few months Louise was cancer free. Her story is amazing: http://www.lightconnection.us/Archive/dec06/dec06_article5.htm

Self EMDR

Here's how to do POSITIVE self EMDR to help with trauma and help you love yourself. No therapist is needed because there's no digging into scary trauma, its just about getting the EMDR to open up your brain and better receive the affirmation **WARNING: Do not do this with traumatic memories without a therapist. I am not liable for anything that happens **





Do this WITH HEADPHONES while you are alone (alone as you can be), preferably at the computer so you have a larger screen. Pick a video from the YouTube playlist that you like best. I want you to follow the ball (or balloon etc) while listening with the headphones, and then the entire time it is playing I want you to say an affirmation over and over.  To learn more about affirmations to HERE

Example (Only address the first affirmation to Heavenly Father, you don't have to address HF each time) :

"Heavenly Father, ___(insert affirmation)____."

"Heavenly Father,  I love and approve of myself ".

Kates EMDR playlist:
https://youtu.be/OVi7yX9X35A?list=PLZ3cNi3tQ6H_7BWNIr6WtuJxet1FucA7t

After you are done,  if you are up for it, you can also get a blank piece of notebook paper and listen to one of these videos with headphones while you WRITE an affirmation over and over and over. Fill up an entire page. (also try and doodle affirmations as much as you can😁) :

Isochronic/Binaural tones. Choose the video that feels the best to you.
https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZ3cNi3tQ6H_kUqF-YgELM76dk_IBrMo2


Example Affirmations :


I love you _____ (say your name.  YES it feels silly,  but for some reason it works really well when speaking to your child self)

I love and approve of myself


It is safe for every part of my body to relax and feel peace.

I am safe.

All is well.

It is safe for me to care for myself

I digest with ease

I want to release my weight

I want/love to take care of my body

My mind is full of love, peace, and clarity

Life will always provide for me

It is safe for me to feel

I relax into the flow of life and let life provide all that I need easily and comfortably

I willingly release with joy

I see myself and what I do with eyes of love

I boldly speak how I feel with ease

It is safe to be me

I relax and recognize my self worth

Harmony and peace, love and joy surround me and indwell me. I am safe and secure.

I am safe in the here and now

It is my birthright to live fully and freely.

I lovingly balance my mind and my body. I now choose thoughts that make me feel good.

The movies of my mind are beautiful because I choose to make then so. I love me.

I am safe and secure at all times. Love surrounds me and protects me. All is well.

I am Divinely protected and surrounded by love. I now create a safe new future.

I give myself permission to be all that I can be and I deserve the very best in life. I love and appreciate myself and my children.

It is safe for me to be alive

***** I am important. I count. I now care for and nourish myself with love and with joy. I allow others the freedom to be who they are. We are all safe and free.

I freely and easily release the old and joyously welcome the new.

I am totally adequate at all times

It is easy for me to reprogram the computer of my mind. All of life is change and my mind is ever new

I trust my Heavenly Father. All I need is always taken care of.

I know I am worthwhile. It is safe for me to succeed.

It is with love that I totally release the past. I am free. I am love.

I am safe. I am at peace with life.

I am loving and lovable.

I release the pattern in me that created this. I am worthwhile. I DESERVE good.

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