tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post3844355888036874000..comments2023-03-25T05:49:26.326-07:00Comments on Help For Victims Of Betrayal Abuse : What if my husband blames me?Makemyburdenlighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08272103698183036082noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-65307419092798759252015-03-01T13:23:07.008-07:002015-03-01T13:23:07.008-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Hopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01324275444199174378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-7221840483783028932015-03-01T13:22:29.173-07:002015-03-01T13:22:29.173-07:00Thank you for adding that , it helps bring me desp...Thank you for adding that , it helps bring me desperately sought for clarity . So sorry for the spinning that happens to you too ! Its is the PITS !Hopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01324275444199174378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-26505455952758522912015-02-14T22:27:17.378-07:002015-02-14T22:27:17.378-07:00I had to come back and read this again…I needed th...I had to come back and read this again…I needed the reminder. I am so angry right now and struggling to let go of the anger and find peace. He's really good at saying the words and taking responsibility when I'm in a good mood…but it falls all apart when I'm angry. He ends up in addict mode every.single.time and then says if I just wasn't so angry all the time…I HATE this damn addiction!Wife Progressinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08382334203510401659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-44025751410937709702015-02-10T10:06:59.822-07:002015-02-10T10:06:59.822-07:00I wish this made me smile , but somehow it always ...I wish this made me smile , but somehow it always makes me want to just sob . I FEEL like it is not my fault , but this voice in my head is always yelling counter lines of " yea but ...yea but ...yea but .."" and I can not grasp WHY do I do this ?? Sometimes it is after I completely blew up and totally over reacted as his "" little "" manipulations piled up in my gut - then the top blows off and I yell . So you are saying even if I reacted perfectly all along ( even though for many months i thought I was doing pretty good in the forgiveness , caring ,kind department ) he could have still found ways to blame me ?! <br />Coming from one who walked it herself makes your posts impacting , and rips away his excuses ! Thank you ! Think I will go have that cry now . It is a surrender cry , it is good .Hopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01324275444199174378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-73140777427248384292015-02-09T22:13:16.248-07:002015-02-09T22:13:16.248-07:00Are you sure you weren't inside my head tonigh...Are you sure you weren't inside my head tonight? This is exactly what I needed to read…it was like to knew the answer to the question I hadn't yet asked. Thank you my friend!Wife Progressinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08382334203510401659noreply@blogger.com