tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post4907799800092596983..comments2023-03-25T05:49:26.326-07:00Comments on Help For Victims Of Betrayal Abuse : What We All Wish Church Leaders Knew About Wives of Porn Addicts: Makemyburdenlighthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08272103698183036082noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-88336772730479339652017-04-21T07:47:08.147-07:002017-04-21T07:47:08.147-07:00Your article has brought me peace and answers! I w...Your article has brought me peace and answers! I will share this with my bishop! After 6 yrs of marriage, many lies from my husband, severe depression caused from the deception. Finally for the first time I ended up in a mental hospital. I've learned many things in this last 6 mo's. But not until reading these articles did I realize, I have ptsd. After a wonderful blessing from my bishop, through the spirit, knowledge is coming to me quickly. Heavenly Father has a way of helping us discover the lies, the deception. I just uncovered another bomb shell the spirit has led me too. I am devastated. But through reading and the spirit, and my husbands actions, I have discovered my husband has a sex addition. I don't know to what exstint. Hidden inside of him are so many deep dark secrets, I may never know. I always thought his actions where just bad behavior. But I'm realizing he has an addiction. He is in denial. Deep inside so much is hidden, something he has probably carried from childhood. He has dropped so many clues over the six years. Finally it's all making since. This is the hardest fight of my life. I pray he gets help. I hope at some point he will disclose all the demons in his closet. For himself, for God, and for me. I am willing to help him through all this. I know and trust in Heavenly Father, that this trial my husband has given me, will make me not bitter, but a better person. To love someone more than myself. To have empathy for others, and help them in those regards. This is all new for me, In regards to loving someone who has basically killed everything in me. I have so much to learn, the hard way. It makes you look more towards the eternal perspective of love, and enduring, of seeing as the Savior does. This for me is a new chapter in my life. I pray this makes me stronger, more humble, more loving, more forgiving. I guess the real challenge will be if my husband admits to it, and decides to get help, and have a desire to change. If not, that is where the true challenge for survival will come for me. This has brought me closier to my Heavenly Father, because right now he is all I have. I'm grateful for all who have shared, it has brought comfort and knowledge to me! You all have been answers to my blessing and my prayers. Thank you!Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16154519408867385687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-28179492543696078652014-10-30T16:19:01.579-07:002014-10-30T16:19:01.579-07:00Yay thats fantastic! This list was actually compil...Yay thats fantastic! This list was actually compiled from 100's of courageous woman willing to share their experiences, im thankful for all they do :)Makemyburdenlighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08272103698183036082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-66933447050519356092014-10-30T15:55:44.792-07:002014-10-30T15:55:44.792-07:00Please give it to whoever you feel could benefit f...Please give it to whoever you feel could benefit from it!! :)Makemyburdenlighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08272103698183036082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-32485838163073269612014-10-26T22:31:37.115-07:002014-10-26T22:31:37.115-07:00Hi! I am a counselor for lds family services, and...Hi! I am a counselor for lds family services, and I have a good friend who is a bishop. I just forwarded this to him. Thank you for writing such a comprehensive article about this! The AngelArkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14389951542614361648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-23060076347442659202014-10-21T09:56:42.668-07:002014-10-21T09:56:42.668-07:00Hi new friend . I feel validated just reading this...Hi new friend . I feel validated just reading this ! Thank you , it is a perfect list . Can I print it and give it to all non-understanding , well meaning others who hand me solutions and have NOT walked this road ? You are a gift . Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-71232799590045436632014-09-09T20:43:45.638-07:002014-09-09T20:43:45.638-07:00Ha oh id never mind! ;)Ha oh id never mind! ;)Makemyburdenlighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08272103698183036082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-34645711454468273022014-09-09T20:41:47.900-07:002014-09-09T20:41:47.900-07:00Love this list.
I'm going to print it and sh...Love this list. <br />I'm going to print it and show it to H!<br />(Hope you don't mind)WithIn the Heart of Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13965923422801142690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-26697535194683085032014-09-09T12:10:20.327-07:002014-09-09T12:10:20.327-07:00Of course! :)Of course! :)Makemyburdenlighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08272103698183036082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-2245587350151691292014-09-09T04:05:46.292-07:002014-09-09T04:05:46.292-07:00This is perfect. May I share it on my blog: encirc...This is perfect. May I share it on my blog: encircledinlove.wordpress.com ?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06499260162968705649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-75487814188638414832014-08-29T15:15:02.734-07:002014-08-29T15:15:02.734-07:00This is an amazing list! Thank you!This is an amazing list! Thank you!Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14462530603685612367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9125950879300674244.post-23698681010717746012014-08-26T22:08:10.952-07:002014-08-26T22:08:10.952-07:00Thank you for putting my feelings and perspective ...Thank you for putting my feelings and perspective into words.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Ophelias2https://www.blogger.com/profile/08121584092989056630noreply@blogger.com